"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Pavement Chicken

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Warboss Alex said:
What I think, is that when a culture where men are polite, respectful and gentlemanly is considered 'AFC' then it's a sorry world indeed.

You guys want to conquer women left and right, but if you don't first show YOURSELVES enough self-respect to be men then you've got it all wrong. Being a man is about having dignity, self-respect, balls yes - that includes respecting others - but if that's at the price of good manners and basic human decency count me out.

None of you will become men until you realise that being a man isn't just about how badly you treat your woman so she'll be attracted to your 'jerkiness'.

All my life I've opened doors for women, let them go first where applicable, done all the 'chivalric' stuff and you know what, I bet I've had more girls than 90% of you guys on here. Some might argue "I've got the looks/muscles" - well fine, that's just a bonus. If you're scrawny and ugly, you might as well be polite and have SOMETHING going for you.

Oh, and you can be polite/charming AND be a devilish, seductive rogue as well. you CAN have both.

Now if you'll excuse me, it's time to eat.
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I made an interesting observation of my own: that this attitude is common among guys who have nothing to prove.
 
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hi there
i want to impress a married women.. how can it possible.. i want tricks..
please do tell. thanks.
 
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Nighthawk said:
Yes, this is what I think now.

Nice to have you back.
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Thanks mate! I leave this place for a short while and I get complacent, so I'm back for a little motivation.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Next time you should do the "I'm Going Right...No... I'm going left...No...Etc"

And see how long you can keep them in front of you.

Than you can come up with something to mess with them about..

Like "If you wanted to dance, you could have just asked"
 
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