"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Pattern in use (by newbie), need help, URGENT!

Duasun

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What to do after pattern? How to make conversation flows naturaly after?
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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you shouldn't get into SS and patterns until you've first developed good conversation skills.
 

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it depends on what patterns you are using...


Mostly you dont just spit out one pattern, but rather so a serries, leading into each other.


The actual goal of Speed Seduction would be to get layed. So the you would end the last pattern with a kiss, and then take it from there.


if you just do a trance story, then when the story ends, you link it to yourself and then talk about something else..

your question isnt really clear.
 

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Is there any way to see did i make it good (after delivering the pattern) on the phone?
I have a good conversational skills, but i thought (i never tried ss before) that she will feel kind of a 'disturbed'?
 

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Originally posted by Duasun
Is there any way to see did i make it good (after delivering the pattern) on the phone?
I have a good conversational skills, but i thought (i never tried ss before) that she will feel kind of a 'disturbed'?

yeah,... dont do patterns over the phone until you get REALLY good. Its not like you can judge her reactions through a telephone wire.

she might not even be listening, or dropped the phone, then picks it up and your going "imagine having great sex"

wtf kinda image is that going to send about you?


and "disturbed" is NOT something you want a girl feeling after you NLP her.


lol
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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