"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Pattern in use (by newbie), need help, URGENT!

Duasun

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What to do after pattern? How to make conversation flows naturaly after?
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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you shouldn't get into SS and patterns until you've first developed good conversation skills.
 

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it depends on what patterns you are using...


Mostly you dont just spit out one pattern, but rather so a serries, leading into each other.


The actual goal of Speed Seduction would be to get layed. So the you would end the last pattern with a kiss, and then take it from there.


if you just do a trance story, then when the story ends, you link it to yourself and then talk about something else..

your question isnt really clear.
 

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Is there any way to see did i make it good (after delivering the pattern) on the phone?
I have a good conversational skills, but i thought (i never tried ss before) that she will feel kind of a 'disturbed'?
 

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Originally posted by Duasun
Is there any way to see did i make it good (after delivering the pattern) on the phone?
I have a good conversational skills, but i thought (i never tried ss before) that she will feel kind of a 'disturbed'?

yeah,... dont do patterns over the phone until you get REALLY good. Its not like you can judge her reactions through a telephone wire.

she might not even be listening, or dropped the phone, then picks it up and your going "imagine having great sex"

wtf kinda image is that going to send about you?


and "disturbed" is NOT something you want a girl feeling after you NLP her.


lol
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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