"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Pasta

waldo

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I'm generally tired a fair bit, and find it effects other parts of my life.

Then I have a bowl of pasta, and I'm like on top of the world, I feel like I could run a marathon.

But then people tell me that its just the amount of carbs I'm taking in, and that eating too much of the stuff will make me fat.

What should I do?, I'm beginning to love the stuff, but don't want to turn into a fatty overnight.

Waldo.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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chim_chim

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Are you overweight now or gaining weight?

Whole wheat pasta is also a lot healthier than regular pasta. I've never tried it, so I can't tell you how it tastes though.
 

waldo

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I'm slightly underweight, but am concious that I could put on a bit of fat without really noticing it.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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It depends on the type of carbs your eating. Overeating the bad, sugar ridden carbs without burning it off will hurt you in the long run. Combining whole grain carbs with equal amounts of protein and vegetables is works well to maintain body weight.

If you are actively athletic, you can up the frequency of that you eat the protein and carbs because you building muscle and burning off the carbs as energy. Think about taking B vitamin supplements if you are lacking energy.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Apollo

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Originally posted by chim_chim
Whole wheat pasta is also a lot healthier than regular pasta. I've never tried it, so I can't tell you how it tastes though.
Whole wheat pasta is amazing, i can't eat the regular stuff anymore after eating the whole wheat...definitely give it a try.
 
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