"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Pasta has a unique structure, low glycemic response and doesn't contribute to obesity(STUDY)

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Interesting...I knew that cooking, then cooling pasta changed the structure to a more resistant starch but did not know it apparently already has some of that benefit to begin with...

 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Eat up and watch your abs fade into blubber.
Depends on how much like with anything else. If you eat a giant plate every day and don't do anything to offset it then sure...

I don't partake but plenty of pro athletes do and many of them still have abs
 

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Hi BackInTheGame,
All the big time Pasta eaters I have known are overweight.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hi BackInTheGame,
All the big time Pasta eaters I have known are overweight.
Pro athletes are. They are definitely not overweight...at least not most of them.

I would also be willing to bet that has a lot to do with what they are putting on it...Alfredo sauce might as well be injecting artery clogger into your veins.
 

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Hi BackInTheGame,
That's interesting,as all the Pasta eaters I have known were Greek or Italian maybe a genetic thing?
 

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Depends on how much like with anything else. If you eat a giant plate every day and don't do anything to offset it then sure...
Yeah, I watch this girl on YouTube who's a vegetarian, and it looks like she eats mostly pasta, as well as fruits and vegetables. But it doesn't look like she eats much, and is very active (burns a lot of calories). And she is about as skinny as you can get.
 

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Yeah I wondered about Italians too. I swear Italians can grow muscle quicker and not all of them get fat either haha

with me and pizza i pack on lbs quick. Ive never ate pasta frequently though.
 

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I genuinely think human beings are built differently.
carbs turn me into blancmange. Bread esp.

My wife (Asian) eats a virtually all carb diet and she has a thigh gap. She eats tons too.
Depends...again I think with pasta a lot of the damage is done via the sauces people choose to put on it.

Also, if you are overweight, you are pretty much almost always insulin resistant and also have higher than normal levels of inflammatory compounds floating around. Your margin for error is far lower than normal in terms of what foods are "safe" to eat.

Once you address that issue and reclaim your insulin sensitivity via nutrition and exercise over time and reduce inflammation in your body, you likely will find your margin for error goes up significantly, although as you age that also tends to lower it as well.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lots of skinny people eat pasta. More than a fistful is too much.
Depends on what your goals are, how much muscle you already have, your daily caloric expenditure and your metabolism, etc.

A fist size for a dude who is 6' 4" tall, 225 lbs and 10% bodyfat is nothing...dude could eat a plateful or more and be perfectly fine.

A fist size for a dude who has a TDEE of over 3500 calories thru workouts and other activities is nothing...he could also eat a plateful or more and be perfectly fine.

For a person who is sedentary or only does a workout and little else in terms of activity, then yeah that's probably correct.
 

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Depends on what your goals are, how much muscle you already have, your daily caloric expenditure and your metabolism, etc.

A fist size for a dude who is 6' 4" tall, 225 lbs and 10% bodyfat is nothing...dude could eat a plateful or more and be perfectly fine.

A fist size for a dude who has a TDEE of over 3500 calories thru workouts and other activities is nothing...he could also eat a plateful or more and be perfectly fine.

For a person who is sedentary or only does a workout and little else in terms of activity, then yeah that's probably correct.
Yes of course. I was speaking more generally - food avoidance (if you like the food) can be counter productive.
 

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Hey Back, is this the same idea as cooked then cooled potatoes? I know they are the most satiating food by rating. If so, then this is gold. Add another great carb to the menu that creates enough satiety, making it easier to reach eating goals because you don't always feel hungry.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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you can lose weight on ****ing twinkies. Its all about calories in and calories out. granted youll still look like **** because lack of protein. Protein is king, but carbohydrates are not the devil.
 

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Hey Back, is this the same idea as cooked then cooled potatoes? I know they are the most satiating food by rating. If so, then this is gold. Add another great carb to the menu that creates enough satiety, making it easier to reach eating goals because you don't always feel hungry.
Cooked and cooled potatoes also lead to a change in the type of carbohydrate to a resistant starch. What's more is that every time it's heated and cooled again it becomes a more resistant starch.

Similar concept but perhaps not exactly the same.
 

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Pasta is fine.
 

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It's the ketotards.
IFtards are on par with the level of annoyance the ketotards bring.

Honestly I'd rather deal with vegans. At least they acknowledge they eat the way they do for virtue, not results.
Ketotards, carbtards, carnivoretards, sugartards, vegantards, blah, blah, blah
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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