"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Past regrets/shame/guilt

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Forty0ztoFreedom

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How do you guys deal with this? I have done things in my past, in darker times . . I didn't hurt anyone or anything, but lets just say its stuff that I am ashamed of. Some days I can just say "the past is the past" but once in a while it just weighs on me. I start a negative thinking pattern that ends up with me thinking I am completely worthless and irredeemable.
 

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You have to take pride in who you are now.

The feeling of guilt is only useful in the moment you first experience it. Its not a feeling people are meant to live with. It does nothing but take away from the brilliance of your future. If you feel bad about your dark past you should make sure your future is brighter.
 
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scottfall said:
You have to take pride in who you are now.

The feeling of guilt is only useful in the moment you first experience it. Its not a feeling people are meant to live with. It does nothing but take away from the brilliance of your future. If you feel bad about your dark past you should make sure your future is brighter.
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I think too many replies clouds an OP's mind and so they don't get the real advise.

Focus on what you want. Negativity feeds negativity, positivity feeds positivity.

That's the real advise.
 
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Laugh at those moments. You messed up but you learned a lesson
 
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