'Drugged, robbed, killed': The city catching US tourists in dating trap
Relatives of men killed in Medellin after meeting local women for dates are now searching for answers.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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There are always risks inherent to going to these types of places to meet women. Things have to be very bad in the home country to be willing to take such risks. He looks Asian, so he probably was unable to attract any woman at home so it probably got that bad for him to want to go this place. The people who did this were arrested and charged for kidnapping and murder, which means they are not going to be doing that again as they are off the streets.
Solomon
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This is why they say a lame in the States is a lame overseas. Not calling the guy lame in the post but if you go to another country and you don't understand how they move(on dating apps, how they view gringos etc) you end up in situations like this. Too many men are lying to themselves thinking an American passport makes them special when to these women you are just a walking lick. You think now that you're in another country you're handsome all of a sudden? bwhahahaha hell no Maria needs that green card fool, and she will sweet talk you and ride you all night to get it. Some men truly are naive