'Drugged, robbed, killed': The city catching US tourists in dating trap
Relatives of men killed in Medellin after meeting local women for dates are now searching for answers.
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"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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There are always risks inherent to going to these types of places to meet women. Things have to be very bad in the home country to be willing to take such risks. He looks Asian, so he probably was unable to attract any woman at home so it probably got that bad for him to want to go this place. The people who did this were arrested and charged for kidnapping and murder, which means they are not going to be doing that again as they are off the streets.
Solomon
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This is why they say a lame in the States is a lame overseas. Not calling the guy lame in the post but if you go to another country and you don't understand how they move(on dating apps, how they view gringos etc) you end up in situations like this. Too many men are lying to themselves thinking an American passport makes them special when to these women you are just a walking lick. You think now that you're in another country you're handsome all of a sudden? bwhahahaha hell no Maria needs that green card fool, and she will sweet talk you and ride you all night to get it. Some men truly are naive