'Drugged, robbed, killed': The city catching US tourists in dating trap
Relatives of men killed in Medellin after meeting local women for dates are now searching for answers.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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There are always risks inherent to going to these types of places to meet women. Things have to be very bad in the home country to be willing to take such risks. He looks Asian, so he probably was unable to attract any woman at home so it probably got that bad for him to want to go this place. The people who did this were arrested and charged for kidnapping and murder, which means they are not going to be doing that again as they are off the streets.
Solomon
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This is why they say a lame in the States is a lame overseas. Not calling the guy lame in the post but if you go to another country and you don't understand how they move(on dating apps, how they view gringos etc) you end up in situations like this. Too many men are lying to themselves thinking an American passport makes them special when to these women you are just a walking lick. You think now that you're in another country you're handsome all of a sudden? bwhahahaha hell no Maria needs that green card fool, and she will sweet talk you and ride you all night to get it. Some men truly are naive