"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Passive aggressiveness from a woman I've been dating

BackInTheGame78

Moderator
Joined
Sep 10, 2014
Messages
16,985
Reaction score
19,330
Been seeing the woman from this thread
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/fr-when-an-hb8-attacks.229620/#post-2299700

For about 3 months now. Have only met up about 5 or 6 times over the course of this time due to both of us being busy, her being out of town for a week, me bring out of town another week and her working overnights, and having a lot of school work/tests to catch up on, which makes things tricky sometimes...anyway, we both enjoy spending time with each other and I've banged her two of the times we've met up.

So hadn't heard from her since Friday, she typically texts me every day, and today she texts me something about "that she hasn't heard from me for a few days and that I told her we would have fun together soon, but to have a great week and weekend since that's not going to happen apparently"...

I laughed it off and asked if this was the passive aggressive side of her coming out, and that I'd been busy over the weekend...

Then she told me she was free Friday and wasn't working this weekend but that I was probably already too busy to see her. I told her I was free Friday night and we set up a date.

Unsure what to make of the whole thing, this is the second time it has happened, and it's usually if I go a few days without talking to her...it's almost like she intentionally doesn't text me to see if I will initiate and if I don't she goes passive aggressive on me...perhaps since I almost never initiate texting she is assuming I'm not interested in her?

She hasn't brought up any exclusivity yet and assumes I am banging other women, which I have been. Haven't dealt with this before...any theories as to what is going on here? Either way I will be discussing it with her when I see her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

G_Govan

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 5, 2014
Messages
470
Reaction score
66
Ignore it and keep doing what you're doing. When you're ready to respond and set something up do it with an upbeat attitude as if you're completely unaffected. As long as she's fun to be around and this doesn't ruin your time together, it's nothing at all to worry about.

Don't discuss it. Just don't...
 

HeadLightsOn

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 17, 2011
Messages
419
Reaction score
78
OP read your other thread. Keep us up to date on how this develops. Also - and I believe I speak for all of us on here -please post a photo of her T and A. Well, what do you expect us to want to see!
 

BackInTheGame78

Moderator
Joined
Sep 10, 2014
Messages
16,985
Reaction score
19,330
She then says

"Well, at least you are thinking of me even tho it may be buried and not evident in your actions, lol"
 
Top