"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ok, so to make sense of all this I have posted about this forum in another Canadian forum, and they have no clue, and are getting furious over what I'm saying so please make a rescue if needed. I am already trying to open their own awareness. This is the first time I'm trying to connect two of my completely distinct community together.

Link:
http://www.redflagdeals.com/forums/showthread.php?t=430622
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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why the hell are you doing that?
 
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bad idea......really bad idea....

why would you do a stupid thing like that????
 
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Canadien said:
Ok, so to make sense of all this I have posted about this forum in another Canadian forum, and they have no clue, and are getting furious over what I'm saying so please make a rescue if needed. I am already trying to open their own awareness. This is the first time I'm trying to connect two of my completely distinct community together.

Link:
http://www.redflagdeals.com/forums/showthread.php?t=430622
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It can't be done man, I tried to open people's eyes on thestudentroom.co.uk under the name Manchester.L. I was banned about a week later.

People can't really be convinced about this kind of stuff....they have to make the change themselves imo. Anyway....more girls for you, less competition.
 
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So pimp its scary

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I gotta join in this one... I mean WHY?!?! This isn't even a forum discussing relationships.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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