"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok, so to make sense of all this I have posted about this forum in another Canadian forum, and they have no clue, and are getting furious over what I'm saying so please make a rescue if needed. I am already trying to open their own awareness. This is the first time I'm trying to connect two of my completely distinct community together.

Link:
http://www.redflagdeals.com/forums/showthread.php?t=430622
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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why the hell are you doing that?
 
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bad idea......really bad idea....

why would you do a stupid thing like that????
 
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Canadien said:
Ok, so to make sense of all this I have posted about this forum in another Canadian forum, and they have no clue, and are getting furious over what I'm saying so please make a rescue if needed. I am already trying to open their own awareness. This is the first time I'm trying to connect two of my completely distinct community together.

Link:
http://www.redflagdeals.com/forums/showthread.php?t=430622
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It can't be done man, I tried to open people's eyes on thestudentroom.co.uk under the name Manchester.L. I was banned about a week later.

People can't really be convinced about this kind of stuff....they have to make the change themselves imo. Anyway....more girls for you, less competition.
 
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I gotta join in this one... I mean WHY?!?! This isn't even a forum discussing relationships.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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