"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Party

MR MIZUN0

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I need some help in this situation, well the college kids (juniors) I work with have a few big parties a year, one being Halloween. So for over a year now, all they keep telling me is that I need to go to one. Every time they have one I always get a few notifications telling me to go. They are going to have alot of beer etc. but I don't drink (when I was 10 my I wanted to try some, so my dad gave me a sip, and I broke out in hives) I don't know what to do, especially because I will be one of the youngest ones there (senior in HS). There will also be a babe I like there.. do I go?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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getready

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Well i think you should go. I dont see any reason why you shouldn't. Get out there and party man. If you don't want to drink, then dont, and if people ask just tell them you cant because your on some medication.
 

War Against Betaism

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Just go. People every weekend are always hunting for parties and when you have the opportunity to go one, especially to one where you already know the people, you don't question whether you want to go or not.
 
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