"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Party

MR MIZUN0

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I need some help in this situation, well the college kids (juniors) I work with have a few big parties a year, one being Halloween. So for over a year now, all they keep telling me is that I need to go to one. Every time they have one I always get a few notifications telling me to go. They are going to have alot of beer etc. but I don't drink (when I was 10 my I wanted to try some, so my dad gave me a sip, and I broke out in hives) I don't know what to do, especially because I will be one of the youngest ones there (senior in HS). There will also be a babe I like there.. do I go?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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getready

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Well i think you should go. I dont see any reason why you shouldn't. Get out there and party man. If you don't want to drink, then dont, and if people ask just tell them you cant because your on some medication.
 

War Against Betaism

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Just go. People every weekend are always hunting for parties and when you have the opportunity to go one, especially to one where you already know the people, you don't question whether you want to go or not.
 
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