I need some help in this situation, well the college kids (juniors) I work with have a few big parties a year, one being Halloween. So for over a year now, all they keep telling me is that I need to go to one. Every time they have one I always get a few notifications telling me to go. They are going to have alot of beer etc. but I don't drink (when I was 10 my I wanted to try some, so my dad gave me a sip, and I broke out in hives) I don't know what to do, especially because I will be one of the youngest ones there (senior in HS). There will also be a babe I like there.. do I go?