"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well, it's been a while since I've been around here.

For you guys who have parties, what do you do at them?

My birthday is today and honestly, I hate every party we have because there's nothing to do, at all. I've got 4 more years left and I'd like to be able to enjoy them to the fullest, and it's a lot easier to invite people to your place versus inviting yourself to their place.

I'm thinking of changing a room in my basement into a party room and I need ideas of what to move down there, what do buy, where to get good deals, etc.

Any help is really appreciated.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i agree with falcon:p but if you want party you need no more then good music!;) remember if you drink everybody is cool as long as you have a place:)
 
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Parties are about being social and having fun


Invite lots of people, have lots of fun.
You can do this with good music, alcohol and some decent things going off


The more the drinks get inside you the more fun it will be.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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One reason why I stopped going to high school parties is because all of them seem to have a DJ and a dance floor and it's the central theme of the party. I personally just want to socialize, meet people, etc. Besides, those types of parties are the ones to get raided the most. Just have music playing in the background and have an area closed off only to the party. Never know when people want to steal stuff.
 
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Yea you gotta have guest list man ore it will end up in a fight .. and stealers. youll find cocain in youre bathroom the walls will stink weed etc:p
 
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Yeah you definitely need a guest list. I went to this guy's open party once, there were people everywhere smoking weed and taking ecstasy, and apparently there were people in the guy's bedroom snorting coke. One of my best mates got bashed for no reason by a 30 year old ex-con who was probably on drugs, and was put in hospital. The cops showed up and two of them were bashed and put in hospital as well. They had to close the entire street (a main road) for 3 hours because all the people were out of control.

I had a decent night myself though, I managed to avoid all the trouble.
 
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What kind of area do you live in... urban, rural, etc.?

Honestly, I would NEVER have a party in my house. People don't respect you're things anymore. It really isn't worth all the damage, and there will be damage.

But the keys to a good party:

1) Alcohol, lots of it

2) Good music, both for dancing and socializing

3) Secure location. This one's kind of iffy. On the one hand cops ruin parties, but on the other people love to talk about the party they were at that got busted and the craziness that ensued (social proof anyone?).

4) A bunch of people. Invite everyone you can.


Also, if you throw one, make sure you're having more fun that everyone else there. Not only does it make you the guy to meet, but attitudes are contagious
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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