"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Party ideas?

Ether

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Well, it's been a while since I've been around here.

For you guys who have parties, what do you do at them?

My birthday is today and honestly, I hate every party we have because there's nothing to do, at all. I've got 4 more years left and I'd like to be able to enjoy them to the fullest, and it's a lot easier to invite people to your place versus inviting yourself to their place.

I'm thinking of changing a room in my basement into a party room and I need ideas of what to move down there, what do buy, where to get good deals, etc.

Any help is really appreciated.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i agree with falcon:p but if you want party you need no more then good music!;) remember if you drink everybody is cool as long as you have a place:)
 

The_Game

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Parties are about being social and having fun


Invite lots of people, have lots of fun.
You can do this with good music, alcohol and some decent things going off


The more the drinks get inside you the more fun it will be.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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War Against Betaism

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One reason why I stopped going to high school parties is because all of them seem to have a DJ and a dance floor and it's the central theme of the party. I personally just want to socialize, meet people, etc. Besides, those types of parties are the ones to get raided the most. Just have music playing in the background and have an area closed off only to the party. Never know when people want to steal stuff.
 

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Yea you gotta have guest list man ore it will end up in a fight .. and stealers. youll find cocain in youre bathroom the walls will stink weed etc:p
 
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Yeah you definitely need a guest list. I went to this guy's open party once, there were people everywhere smoking weed and taking ecstasy, and apparently there were people in the guy's bedroom snorting coke. One of my best mates got bashed for no reason by a 30 year old ex-con who was probably on drugs, and was put in hospital. The cops showed up and two of them were bashed and put in hospital as well. They had to close the entire street (a main road) for 3 hours because all the people were out of control.

I had a decent night myself though, I managed to avoid all the trouble.
 
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BlakeW5

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What kind of area do you live in... urban, rural, etc.?

Honestly, I would NEVER have a party in my house. People don't respect you're things anymore. It really isn't worth all the damage, and there will be damage.

But the keys to a good party:

1) Alcohol, lots of it

2) Good music, both for dancing and socializing

3) Secure location. This one's kind of iffy. On the one hand cops ruin parties, but on the other people love to talk about the party they were at that got busted and the craziness that ensued (social proof anyone?).

4) A bunch of people. Invite everyone you can.


Also, if you throw one, make sure you're having more fun that everyone else there. Not only does it make you the guy to meet, but attitudes are contagious
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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