"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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protienpowder

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Hi, can any of you DJ's post a guidline to meeting girls at parties?
I go to ucsb, and the party scence is real big. Most of the parties I go to are thrown in people's houses, not frat or soriety parties. Most of the people at the parties seem to hang out in their own groups, and most people seem to meet other people through other friends. Allotta these parties have a dance floor and a place to get drinks. My question is once you make eye contact and say hi with a smile, what do you do from here? How long should we talk before I should ask her to dance? How long should we dance for? After that, should I get her name and number and move onto another party, or should I stay and talk? Or should I invite her to my room?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BobTheB

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I'm headed to UCSB next year. The easiest way I can think of is to just do it man. Don't sit around thinking just get at it.
 

ShizamDaMan

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Dude, just start talking to random hot girls. Once you talk to enough of them, you'll figure out what works, what doesn't.

Just concentrate on making a good connection at first, and if all goes well isolate and proceed.
 
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