"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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protienpowder

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Hi, can any of you DJ's post a guidline to meeting girls at parties?
I go to ucsb, and the party scence is real big. Most of the parties I go to are thrown in people's houses, not frat or soriety parties. Most of the people at the parties seem to hang out in their own groups, and most people seem to meet other people through other friends. Allotta these parties have a dance floor and a place to get drinks. My question is once you make eye contact and say hi with a smile, what do you do from here? How long should we talk before I should ask her to dance? How long should we dance for? After that, should I get her name and number and move onto another party, or should I stay and talk? Or should I invite her to my room?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

BobTheB

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I'm headed to UCSB next year. The easiest way I can think of is to just do it man. Don't sit around thinking just get at it.
 

ShizamDaMan

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Dude, just start talking to random hot girls. Once you talk to enough of them, you'll figure out what works, what doesn't.

Just concentrate on making a good connection at first, and if all goes well isolate and proceed.
 
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