"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Party Guide? (Super Bowl?)

DJ_Trainee_10

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Okay,

One of the cool jocks just invited me to a Super Bowl Party (Feb 5th, about a month from now). Cool, I'm in.

Theres going to be 50 or more guests +1 so possibly over a 100 or more people, I don't know if that's a lot for a party but this is probably the biggest party I've been to all year with a lot of the cool guys and hot girls... literally, I mean it.

I want to know if there's a specific guide to DJing at a party, specifically a Super Bowl Party. I don't want to be the life of the party, although that would be cool, I just want to kick up my popularity and stand out from the others, with the ladies (as a DJ) and with the guys (as a cool guy).

If there isn't such a guide, perhaps all you guys can give me a few (a lot) tips and links to helpful guides. This would help a lot!

I know I may be another guy just asking for advice but this does mean a lot to me.

Thanks,
Trainee 10
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Soupar

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Its a party man... just pimp those *****es.
 

Adone

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Man, it's not a jock party, it's a party, period. Fùck labels and just have fun.

The New Year's Eve party I was invited was in another State and I knew maybe 20% of the people there. Guess what? I got asked my number by 5 different girls and 3 guys... A guy (really alpha-male) introduced me to his girlfriend and the following day she asked a friend of mine for my number and is now constantly SMSing me.

I'm not extremely good looking, I just thought about having fun. As soon as I entered the house, I gave high fives to people and everybody looked so happy to see me, even people I had never talked to in my whole life. I joined conversations with people I had never seen before and I danced with girls I had never met.

If you just think about having fun and not looking cool, girls will flock at you.


Adone
 
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