"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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party gone wrong

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SandHawk

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Go up to them, open them by for instance something related to their dancing. For instance, go up to them, stare for a brief moment before actual opening the girl, and then tell them "You got some decent moves there, but I bet I can do better". Then show your **** moves, and as they watch in disbelief, stop, and tell them "Ah crap, you caught me red handed! How about you show me some of those moves of yours?". From there on they either rush off, or you're hooked and you can run your regular game.
 

PRMoon

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Learning to dance certainly seems like a viable option.
 

the305

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So your basically asking us how you can get a chick that obviously went to the party TO dance, to NOT dance.

You mindset is backwards, your not going to convince a girl to stray away from her friends activities as a group and be the outcast, and if you do manage to do so, its just making things more difficult then they should be.

Think about ways to START dancing with her. if you dont know how to dance... simply ASk a girl to take you under her wing and teach you a simple move, don't act like this too cool for school type of guy.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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