"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SandHawk

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Go up to them, open them by for instance something related to their dancing. For instance, go up to them, stare for a brief moment before actual opening the girl, and then tell them "You got some decent moves there, but I bet I can do better". Then show your **** moves, and as they watch in disbelief, stop, and tell them "Ah crap, you caught me red handed! How about you show me some of those moves of yours?". From there on they either rush off, or you're hooked and you can run your regular game.
 

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Learning to dance certainly seems like a viable option.
 

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So your basically asking us how you can get a chick that obviously went to the party TO dance, to NOT dance.

You mindset is backwards, your not going to convince a girl to stray away from her friends activities as a group and be the outcast, and if you do manage to do so, its just making things more difficult then they should be.

Think about ways to START dancing with her. if you dont know how to dance... simply ASk a girl to take you under her wing and teach you a simple move, don't act like this too cool for school type of guy.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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