i recently got with this girl at my school shes about an hb7 shes coo and everything but she always out with her friends and stuff while im at summer school and football practice...there have been situations where she choses to go out with them for the night over going out with me....should i let this go on or should i stop this behaivor and if so how
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
party girl(hlp me)
- Thread starter titan27
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Mr_rogers
Senior Don Juan
Well, I wouldn't say that there is anything wrong with her wanting to go out, per se, but... it wouldn't surprise me that much if she's either losing interest in you, or cheating when you're not around. It seems like she doesn't value time around you that much, which isn't a good thing.titan27 said:i recently got with this girl at my school shes about an hb7 shes coo and everything but she always out with her friends and stuff while im at summer school and football practice...there have been situations where she choses to go out with them for the night over going out with me....should i let this go on or should i stop this behaivor and if so how
As for stopping this... you can't. If she decides that she'd rather go out than be with you, you're already not all that important to her, so threatening to walk away probably won't solve much of anything.
WC2
Master Don Juan
Just because she likes going out with her girls doesn't mean she doesn't like you. Some girls do value their friends very highly, and hate breaking plans with them. Another thing to note is you just got with this girl. Nothing else. It takes a little more than that to keep a girl wanting to see you more.
Ah, I've been through this again and again. There are a lot of ways to look at this. You can't get upset every time she goes out with her friends. I mean, you want to be with your friends too, so why not let her do the same? You guys don't seem like you're dating exclusively, so I wouldn't be too worried about it. While I was in high school, I've always kept the mentality to give the girl something that she doesn't normally get on a daily basis. Make her feel special around you and she'll always want to be around. This may seem kind of vague but this is the best advice you could have gotten for this situation.
If u's arn't dating, then theres a simple solution,
If she wants to go out with friends, then theres no stopping you going out and having fun neway. Go out meet some new girls, if she sees you dancing with another girl or chatting another girl up, then she'll either do two things.
Get jealous that ur talking to another girl and try to win you back.
OR
Crack the ****s at you and say that she doesn't wanna spend time with you nemore.
If she cracks it at you, then ur better off neway, if she gets jealous, then hey, what can you say, ur've got her in the bag again.
If she wants to go out with friends, then theres no stopping you going out and having fun neway. Go out meet some new girls, if she sees you dancing with another girl or chatting another girl up, then she'll either do two things.
Get jealous that ur talking to another girl and try to win you back.
OR
Crack the ****s at you and say that she doesn't wanna spend time with you nemore.
If she cracks it at you, then ur better off neway, if she gets jealous, then hey, what can you say, ur've got her in the bag again.
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