"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Party girl, but I have no parties to go to. Advice needed

johnballantine02

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I met this party girl last week and I'll probably see her this week again. I'm going to ask her out but the problem is that I don't have any parties to go to this weekend. I was thinking of just asking her to come over to watch a movie, but after I heard her talk about how she went out to a movie with this lame guy and it sucked I realised I'm going to have to do something more exciting.


What do you guys suggest? Any ideas would be appreciated.


Thanks,
John
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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xblitz44x

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Make sure you have booze. Ask her if she wants Redbull/Gatoraide and Vodka, and substitute Vodka with Everclear. She's a partier so she'll accept. Once she's drinking you both will have a great time. "Watch a movie" with her, which means in reality: Lay on the couch and molest her while there is a movie playing in the background.
 

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Tell her there is a clearance sale at sears and you can get a dijiroodoo for like $599.99.
 

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Just because you met her at a party, it doesn't mean that's all she wants to do. She wants to go out and have FUN. A movie isn't fun. A night of mini golf is FUN. Trying on ugly clothes at a second hand store is FUN. Playing board games is FUN. Driving around and making fun of people is FUN.

Just make your date FUN and you won't have any problems.
 

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Goto a movie theatre at least... Girls know damn right that if they goto your house, it means she going to be dealt upon.

Unless this girl is a total slutbag, I think shes going to be hesitant.

I would ask her to come over to your house but if you see shes not into it...then act like you have just had an sudden epiphany and there is an awesome new movie out and she has to see it blah blah blah.

Spit your game or whatever afterwards.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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