"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Party girl, but I have no parties to go to. Advice needed

johnballantine02

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I met this party girl last week and I'll probably see her this week again. I'm going to ask her out but the problem is that I don't have any parties to go to this weekend. I was thinking of just asking her to come over to watch a movie, but after I heard her talk about how she went out to a movie with this lame guy and it sucked I realised I'm going to have to do something more exciting.


What do you guys suggest? Any ideas would be appreciated.


Thanks,
John
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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xblitz44x

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Make sure you have booze. Ask her if she wants Redbull/Gatoraide and Vodka, and substitute Vodka with Everclear. She's a partier so she'll accept. Once she's drinking you both will have a great time. "Watch a movie" with her, which means in reality: Lay on the couch and molest her while there is a movie playing in the background.
 

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Tell her there is a clearance sale at sears and you can get a dijiroodoo for like $599.99.
 

Desdinova

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Just because you met her at a party, it doesn't mean that's all she wants to do. She wants to go out and have FUN. A movie isn't fun. A night of mini golf is FUN. Trying on ugly clothes at a second hand store is FUN. Playing board games is FUN. Driving around and making fun of people is FUN.

Just make your date FUN and you won't have any problems.
 

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Goto a movie theatre at least... Girls know damn right that if they goto your house, it means she going to be dealt upon.

Unless this girl is a total slutbag, I think shes going to be hesitant.

I would ask her to come over to your house but if you see shes not into it...then act like you have just had an sudden epiphany and there is an awesome new movie out and she has to see it blah blah blah.

Spit your game or whatever afterwards.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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