"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Parting words with a nice girl- advice req'd

Lion

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Im going to see a girl I've been hanging out with for almost a month now.
It will be the last time I see her for at least 2 months. (Yes I know, why am I bothering, she's a good one)

What do's and don'ts should I emplore on this last night? We've made out but not slept together. Any hot lines I could drop to make her think... think and think about me :up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Comeon you chaps, I'd really appreciate advice on what to say and what to avoid saying.

Examples:
Girl: Will you miss me?
ME: ______________
 

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uhhhh theres no magical words you can tell a person to make them think about you forever and ever. And chances are you wont even remember what to say if I did tell you something.
 

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Dude if you really care about this girl then you shouldn't need us to tell you what to say. Just say whatever's on your mind.

If she asks "Will You miss me?"

If you ARE going to miss her, then say "yes, I will."

You get what i'm saying here?

There's no formula. There's no set of rules, just be yourself.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NSUballer said:
uhhhh theres no magical words you can tell a person to make them think about you forever and ever. And chances are you wont even remember what to say if I did tell you something.
Second that. The people that don't get to where they want when they come here to get this part of their life handled are the ones that think that it takes parlor tricks, scripts, and other planned things to seduce women.

Look the funny thing is with the right attitude and display of confidence you can make anything work for you. My favorite example of this is awkward silences, when you use it to display to a girl that you can remain calm in sitations that normally make other guys sweat bullets (of course in that case I store a few intresting questions in my phone to ask in an attempt to eventually break the silence, such as "On a scale of 1 to 10, how comfortable would you feel riding a roller coaster......naked?" or "You weren't one of those girls in high school that was obcessed with boy bands were you?", "So whats your take on the whole Dennese Richards-Charlie Sheen saga?")

As for what to say, I'll give you some guidelines. Don't tell her that your going to or have been thinking about her 24/7. You could give your voice a tune up to, put your hand on your chest when you speak and try to make it vibrate. This is called making your voice resonate and its male equivelant of that sexy seductive voice women use when they seduce you. Of course the hand over the chest thing is for you to practice, not use in public. Tease her about things that shes not so insecure about, like if she really thinks her breast are to small don't tease her about getting implants. By the same token if she says her hairs a mess say something like "well I didn't want to say anything but..." then later in the evening act like her hairs embarrising you. Remember when guys (not men) get teased they become pissed off, when women get teased (in the right ways) they become arroused. Stay away from compliments that deal with her looks and while occasionaly droping ones that highlight her intellect and don't make them last too long (if she makes a bright comment tell her that you thought it was insightful and you think shes pretty bright, of course don't drag it out. Like Visa in out and on with life). By the same token if shes dressed nice say something like "you look nice" and move on (if she is dressed nice it didn't happen by accident).

And with that said I wish you the best
 
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