"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Parting words with a nice girl- advice req'd

Lion

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Im going to see a girl I've been hanging out with for almost a month now.
It will be the last time I see her for at least 2 months. (Yes I know, why am I bothering, she's a good one)

What do's and don'ts should I emplore on this last night? We've made out but not slept together. Any hot lines I could drop to make her think... think and think about me :up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Comeon you chaps, I'd really appreciate advice on what to say and what to avoid saying.

Examples:
Girl: Will you miss me?
ME: ______________
 

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uhhhh theres no magical words you can tell a person to make them think about you forever and ever. And chances are you wont even remember what to say if I did tell you something.
 

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Dude if you really care about this girl then you shouldn't need us to tell you what to say. Just say whatever's on your mind.

If she asks "Will You miss me?"

If you ARE going to miss her, then say "yes, I will."

You get what i'm saying here?

There's no formula. There's no set of rules, just be yourself.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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NSUballer said:
uhhhh theres no magical words you can tell a person to make them think about you forever and ever. And chances are you wont even remember what to say if I did tell you something.
Second that. The people that don't get to where they want when they come here to get this part of their life handled are the ones that think that it takes parlor tricks, scripts, and other planned things to seduce women.

Look the funny thing is with the right attitude and display of confidence you can make anything work for you. My favorite example of this is awkward silences, when you use it to display to a girl that you can remain calm in sitations that normally make other guys sweat bullets (of course in that case I store a few intresting questions in my phone to ask in an attempt to eventually break the silence, such as "On a scale of 1 to 10, how comfortable would you feel riding a roller coaster......naked?" or "You weren't one of those girls in high school that was obcessed with boy bands were you?", "So whats your take on the whole Dennese Richards-Charlie Sheen saga?")

As for what to say, I'll give you some guidelines. Don't tell her that your going to or have been thinking about her 24/7. You could give your voice a tune up to, put your hand on your chest when you speak and try to make it vibrate. This is called making your voice resonate and its male equivelant of that sexy seductive voice women use when they seduce you. Of course the hand over the chest thing is for you to practice, not use in public. Tease her about things that shes not so insecure about, like if she really thinks her breast are to small don't tease her about getting implants. By the same token if she says her hairs a mess say something like "well I didn't want to say anything but..." then later in the evening act like her hairs embarrising you. Remember when guys (not men) get teased they become pissed off, when women get teased (in the right ways) they become arroused. Stay away from compliments that deal with her looks and while occasionaly droping ones that highlight her intellect and don't make them last too long (if she makes a bright comment tell her that you thought it was insightful and you think shes pretty bright, of course don't drag it out. Like Visa in out and on with life). By the same token if shes dressed nice say something like "you look nice" and move on (if she is dressed nice it didn't happen by accident).

And with that said I wish you the best
 
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