"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Particular scene that always intrigued me

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When I was younger, I was always intrigued by this scene from Taxi Driver, where DeNiro slowly follows around Jodie Foster in his cab. While he's watching her, suddenly some angry black guy walks by on the pavement, yelling how he's gonna kill some bytch and blow her brains out when he gets his hands on her.

The guy has TOTALLY lost it and it's obvious that the bytch he's talking about has driven him to MADNESS. Somehow, that scene always made me wonder...what did she do to drive him THIS far? Nobody knows...but I always found it a very intriguing testament to the INCREDIBLE influence that women, love and all things related can have over a man's life. It's ridiculous...

Kind of a pointless thread, I know... Had nothing else to do :p

Here's the scene: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VkDJHkAKtG8
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Not totally pointless. We're all here to keep the demons in check. If we don't stay vigilant, the madness that starts out as being AFC could lead down worse paths...unhappy marriages, crappy relationships, failed hopes and dreams. Viddy well, my brothers.
 

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Indeed, we always have to remain vigilant. That's exactly WHY this scene always intrigued me. You see, when I watched this movie for the first time, I was like 14 or 15 years old. At that time, I was going from one hopeless oneitis to the other. Man...I would have a crush on a girl for HALF A YEAR and then finally gathered the courage to confess my undying love to her, only to be rejected. Afterwards, I'd have to cry myself to sleep each night, for weeks or even months at a time... I was completely helpless.

So then I saw this guy, AN ADULT PERSON, who also got his mind totally twisted up by some woman. It really got to me, to see that even a grown up man could be affected so much by a woman. Being a 14 year old kid, I just couldn't get my head around it: how could even a grown up man be so affected by a woman? How could a woman have so much power over him that he's now walking on the streets COMPLETELY OUT OF HIS MIND??

Whether a teenage kid or a grown ass man, women can hold incredible power over us.
 
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