Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Particular scene that always intrigued me

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When I was younger, I was always intrigued by this scene from Taxi Driver, where DeNiro slowly follows around Jodie Foster in his cab. While he's watching her, suddenly some angry black guy walks by on the pavement, yelling how he's gonna kill some bytch and blow her brains out when he gets his hands on her.

The guy has TOTALLY lost it and it's obvious that the bytch he's talking about has driven him to MADNESS. Somehow, that scene always made me wonder...what did she do to drive him THIS far? Nobody knows...but I always found it a very intriguing testament to the INCREDIBLE influence that women, love and all things related can have over a man's life. It's ridiculous...

Kind of a pointless thread, I know... Had nothing else to do :p

Here's the scene: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VkDJHkAKtG8
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Not totally pointless. We're all here to keep the demons in check. If we don't stay vigilant, the madness that starts out as being AFC could lead down worse paths...unhappy marriages, crappy relationships, failed hopes and dreams. Viddy well, my brothers.
 

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Indeed, we always have to remain vigilant. That's exactly WHY this scene always intrigued me. You see, when I watched this movie for the first time, I was like 14 or 15 years old. At that time, I was going from one hopeless oneitis to the other. Man...I would have a crush on a girl for HALF A YEAR and then finally gathered the courage to confess my undying love to her, only to be rejected. Afterwards, I'd have to cry myself to sleep each night, for weeks or even months at a time... I was completely helpless.

So then I saw this guy, AN ADULT PERSON, who also got his mind totally twisted up by some woman. It really got to me, to see that even a grown up man could be affected so much by a woman. Being a 14 year old kid, I just couldn't get my head around it: how could even a grown up man be so affected by a woman? How could a woman have so much power over him that he's now walking on the streets COMPLETELY OUT OF HIS MIND??

Whether a teenage kid or a grown ass man, women can hold incredible power over us.
 
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