Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I don't follow what celebrities do...I was watching CNN...the news. I didn't even know she was in trouble until I heard about this on CNN. When I heard that she got her license taken for a DUI and then got caught driving twice after that and ignored the probation requirements then yeah...I think it's comical that she's going to jail for 45 days. If it were you you'd go to jail for close to a year.Michele said:i hate people who care about celebrity people's lives.
if you find their life so interesting... i dont know.... you just need to make yours more interesting... enough said.
i don't see whats so funny, cool, or interesting about it. theres a ton more interesting things out there than some media-wh0re's life.
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the only replies will probably be about her sex tape, how shes a "hor" (it'll probably be Last Man Standing who's going to say it), etc.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
lol :crackup:Master Bates said:thats hot.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Banksy has replaced Hilton's CD with his own remixes and given them titles such as Why am I Famous?, What Have I Done? and What Am I For?
Hahaha that's what her butch cell mate will say... :yes:Wyldfire said:lol :crackup:
A few things:djSlvt said:Paris is getting off easy for DUI, probation violation, and court contempt. 45 days in jail (not prison), is not that bad, especially if you don't care if fellon label bothering you for life (as in getting a job).
Actually...he only gave her half of the time he could have given her...90 days.Deep Dish said:A few things:
- Violation of probation for a misdemeanor is not a felony.
- You cannot be sentenced to prison for any sentence shorter than six months.
- By media reports, the judge threw the book at Paris.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I stand corrected. Facts get fuzzy over time...Deus ex Pianoforte said:You're right about the probation violation not being a felony, but the limit is 12 months.
Yeah, such as laughing and saying "Can I get your autograph?" (Also, 45 days is apparently the maximum sentence. The judge said that if she didn't show up to jail, he'd double the sentence to 90 days.)Wyldfire:
She should have left her mother at home...Mrs. Hilton was heckling the prosecutor and judge according to some reports.
I don't want to hijack the conversation but one month ago I was arrested on DUI. First time in handcuffs. My case is legally indefensible (no aggravating factors except I blew twice the legal limit) and I'm pleading guilty. The whole experience has been and will continue to be very humbling. I'm getting sentenced rather soon and am hoping to avert jail.She got jail time because she has spent the last few months acting like the laws don't apply to her...and she hasn't done even one thing she was required to do as part of her probation.
Its not because she is female AT ALL.Zwitterion said:If she was a man you guys would be egging her on cus she does what she wants has loads and loads of confidence and just doesn't give ****. But because she represents the girl who has everything that wouldn't give you the time of day in high school you bash her and call her a ***** and pretend she's ugly.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.