"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Parents trust

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I would like to know how I can establish a better realitionship with my parents. I tend to hide things from the and don't tell them the truth. Also I tend to be scared to ask them to go to parties and such cause they ask way to much questions and pick me up real early unless I spend the night over their what should I do.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Vincent

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Just work on building there trust.

Ask yourself, do you really want to hide things from your parents?

If you don't want to deal with it than don;t do it.

Be very mature with your parents.
 

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I've got the same problem.

If I was completely honest with my parents (and I've tried) I'd be locked up in my room 24/7 because my parents don't want me going out past 9:00pm. I've tried reasoning with them, doesn't work.
 

nickeldime

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Originally posted by Vincent
Just work on building there trust.

Ask yourself, do you really want to hide things from your parents?

If you don't want to deal with it than don;t do it.

Be very mature with your parents.

staying out late really depends where you are in the world cause some places are more dangerous then others after a certain period of time..

however i'm allowed out till..3-4 in the morning cause i'm in a very safe city
 

ak5

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ill tell u what sum1 told me

do not lie and if you must, dont make it really farfetched

example:

party -> gathering to play video game
club in downtown -> restaurrant in down town
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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grifter

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omg yes my parents are strict as well. they dont let me go out, unless they know edxactly what i am up to, and what time ill be back (usually before 11:00 pm hahaha) it sucks i know, but i hate my parents and dont know why they can't just let me go out, have fun, and ****?
 

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^^^^^^Yea my parents are more like that. So it would be a good way to stop that from happenning and having more carefree parents. Sucks being the first born
 
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