"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Parents freaking

DJoneday

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Alright, today I'm in the car with my folks and girlfriend taking her home...we've been going out for almost three months, and I kiss her on the cheek maybe three times over a 30 minute car ride.

In front of her house I give her a quick peck on the lips (her dad was right there)

Get home, mom tells me that she and my dad aren't comfortable with me and my girl's physical level...it's rediculous after three months..

What do you all suggest I do to get them to realize that this sort of thing is natural?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Vincent

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Originally posted by DJoneday
What do you all suggest I do to get them to realize that this sort of thing is natural?
Just talk to them, tell them your 16, your not f*cking her yet, so just be strait up, talk to them maturely.

Or just p*ssy-foot the situation till they catch you :p
 

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Re: Re: Parents freaking

Originally posted by Vincent
Or just p*ssy-foot the situation till they catch you :p
I like that option the best.
 

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have your parents ever kissed in front of you - if not, tell them they are sexually repressed.

If they have when you were younger you probably said yuck, relate that feeling to them and say look its natrual
 
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