"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
My problem is the hoes at the gym. When there's fine ass honeys around in some skimpy shorts, I just can't seem to focus like I should.
when you think you have mastered perfect form and you have constructed a workout regimen, go to the gym and practice with light weights which should let you pump out reps in the 20-30's (this will prepare your body for the punishment to follow). do this for 1 month then move on to a bulking routine in a low rep range 4-10.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
silverwex
Master Don Juan
Last week the gym instructor showed me how to do dumbell presses. He gave me two 16kg in each hand. I could do about 10 reps with these but my technique was awful as it was my first time.
Should i use 8kg on each hand tonight to get used to it?
Dont wanna look like a weak little chump tho!
Get your form down, then go heavy.Originally posted by silverwex
Thanks guys, im due to go in two hours at 8pm when its a bit quieter (hopefully!) to get my form right.
Last week the gym instructor showed me how to do dumbell presses. He gave me two 16kg in each hand. I could do about 10 reps with these but my technique was awful as it was my first time.
Should i use 8kg on each hand tonight to get used to it?
Dont wanna look like a weak little chump tho!
MrFitness880
Senior Don Juan
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.