"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Paralysis by analysis

TheHoff

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Don't use this website too much!!take the tools from it and go and live your life!! my guess is that if your on this all day, by the time you see a girl a million different thoughts will be running through you head and you'll appear as insecure!!

instead, hit the gym, get a hobby, learn mma (its awesome)!!!, or start the clubbing scene!! and when you see a girl you like just relax and have fun with her!

by all means still use the forum, just don't make it your life!!

Peace out
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Is anyone keeping track of how many of these posts are written in a given time period?
 

Cod3r

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^ ^ I was thinking same thing... would be fun to throw the data in an excel spreadsheet and see it graphically


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Francisco d'Anconia

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Cod3r said:
^ ^ I was thinking same thing... would be fun to throw the data in an excel spreadsheet and see it graphically


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OK, there was an underlying joke in there about a (ex)member of the forum, right? ;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TheHoff

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sorry but im not on this forum very much,as quite simply i dont need it, as you can see from my post count. therefore i dont see these posts which are similar to the one i made being posted every day!!
 
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