"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Paralysis by analysis

TheHoff

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Don't use this website too much!!take the tools from it and go and live your life!! my guess is that if your on this all day, by the time you see a girl a million different thoughts will be running through you head and you'll appear as insecure!!

instead, hit the gym, get a hobby, learn mma (its awesome)!!!, or start the clubbing scene!! and when you see a girl you like just relax and have fun with her!

by all means still use the forum, just don't make it your life!!

Peace out
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Is anyone keeping track of how many of these posts are written in a given time period?
 

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^ ^ I was thinking same thing... would be fun to throw the data in an excel spreadsheet and see it graphically


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Cod3r said:
^ ^ I was thinking same thing... would be fun to throw the data in an excel spreadsheet and see it graphically


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OK, there was an underlying joke in there about a (ex)member of the forum, right? ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sorry but im not on this forum very much,as quite simply i dont need it, as you can see from my post count. therefore i dont see these posts which are similar to the one i made being posted every day!!
 
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