"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Paralysis by analysis

TheHoff

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Don't use this website too much!!take the tools from it and go and live your life!! my guess is that if your on this all day, by the time you see a girl a million different thoughts will be running through you head and you'll appear as insecure!!

instead, hit the gym, get a hobby, learn mma (its awesome)!!!, or start the clubbing scene!! and when you see a girl you like just relax and have fun with her!

by all means still use the forum, just don't make it your life!!

Peace out
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is anyone keeping track of how many of these posts are written in a given time period?
 

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^ ^ I was thinking same thing... would be fun to throw the data in an excel spreadsheet and see it graphically


-Cod3r
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Cod3r said:
^ ^ I was thinking same thing... would be fun to throw the data in an excel spreadsheet and see it graphically


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OK, there was an underlying joke in there about a (ex)member of the forum, right? ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TheHoff

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sorry but im not on this forum very much,as quite simply i dont need it, as you can see from my post count. therefore i dont see these posts which are similar to the one i made being posted every day!!
 
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