"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Pants

Don_Joffe

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I know this is hard to answer but let me tell you what I know the truth about the "pants" are.
I bought a new pair of Red stripped pants today.
My dad said: Clown
My friends brother said: Golfer
My friend said: Irish (Im South African.)
2 girls said: "Wow, where did you get those pants from, I love them."

Whats imporant here? Dads are still living in their generation of clothes, they dont have a clue.
Friends brother is 12 years old, he doesnt know anything about fashion.
My friend is an AFC.

2 girls opinion is what counts and YOURS.

1. I like the pants
2. The girls like the pants

So, thats all what matters, right? YES, RIGHT.

Who cares what GUYS think, its the same with the PINK shirts that people are going on about, its fine.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Julian

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nm didnt read rest of post haha.
 

Climax

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haha.. yip yip...

Don Joffe: You are 100% correct. Its just that most guys are just too damn insecure to wear something like that, which brings me to my point of CONFIDENCE, wearing pants like those show that u have confidence too. So all those guys that think that its gay etc can carry on looking AVERAGE while us Don Juans (guys with a much higher confidence level) wear the stylish cloths that make us stand out and attract women;)


Laterz...
 

thefonz

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I think you're forgeting Don Joffe......I have a problem with pink shirts, and thats what REALLY counts
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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