"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don_Joffe

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I know this is hard to answer but let me tell you what I know the truth about the "pants" are.
I bought a new pair of Red stripped pants today.
My dad said: Clown
My friends brother said: Golfer
My friend said: Irish (Im South African.)
2 girls said: "Wow, where did you get those pants from, I love them."

Whats imporant here? Dads are still living in their generation of clothes, they dont have a clue.
Friends brother is 12 years old, he doesnt know anything about fashion.
My friend is an AFC.

2 girls opinion is what counts and YOURS.

1. I like the pants
2. The girls like the pants

So, thats all what matters, right? YES, RIGHT.

Who cares what GUYS think, its the same with the PINK shirts that people are going on about, its fine.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Julian

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nm didnt read rest of post haha.
 

Climax

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haha.. yip yip...

Don Joffe: You are 100% correct. Its just that most guys are just too damn insecure to wear something like that, which brings me to my point of CONFIDENCE, wearing pants like those show that u have confidence too. So all those guys that think that its gay etc can carry on looking AVERAGE while us Don Juans (guys with a much higher confidence level) wear the stylish cloths that make us stand out and attract women;)


Laterz...
 

thefonz

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I think you're forgeting Don Joffe......I have a problem with pink shirts, and thats what REALLY counts
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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