"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Don_Joffe

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I know this is hard to answer but let me tell you what I know the truth about the "pants" are.
I bought a new pair of Red stripped pants today.
My dad said: Clown
My friends brother said: Golfer
My friend said: Irish (Im South African.)
2 girls said: "Wow, where did you get those pants from, I love them."

Whats imporant here? Dads are still living in their generation of clothes, they dont have a clue.
Friends brother is 12 years old, he doesnt know anything about fashion.
My friend is an AFC.

2 girls opinion is what counts and YOURS.

1. I like the pants
2. The girls like the pants

So, thats all what matters, right? YES, RIGHT.

Who cares what GUYS think, its the same with the PINK shirts that people are going on about, its fine.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Julian

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nm didnt read rest of post haha.
 

Climax

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haha.. yip yip...

Don Joffe: You are 100% correct. Its just that most guys are just too damn insecure to wear something like that, which brings me to my point of CONFIDENCE, wearing pants like those show that u have confidence too. So all those guys that think that its gay etc can carry on looking AVERAGE while us Don Juans (guys with a much higher confidence level) wear the stylish cloths that make us stand out and attract women;)


Laterz...
 

thefonz

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I think you're forgeting Don Joffe......I have a problem with pink shirts, and thats what REALLY counts
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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