NewDude001
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I was ALWAYS trying to eat healthy my entire life. I don't ever recall eating french fries or drinking soda, not even as a little kid. Nice try though 
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
A-Unit said:when you eat QUALITY, you don't need lots of QUANTITY.
Thanks man, that brought back so many fun memory's from Highschoolorganizedconfusion said:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Free range chicken is largely a myth. For the first few weeks they live in the same sh1t infested boxed up house. Then the last 2 weeks of their life, the farmers open up their cages and the door to the barn and let them walk around a fenced in area. Guess what - the chickens never do because they've been conditioned to live in their sh1t infested box house.True. It tends to be expensive, but very worthwhile, imo. I think cattle are probably the cleanest in general, excluding most veal production. Non-free range chickens and hogs live in ridiculous little boxes, festering in their own filth.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Err, well, pasta and bread are both processed so they're out. Eggs are fine, I think men have been eating eggs for quite some time without any problems. Milk has been shown to be bad for you, it's really your decision though (personally I just eat meat for protein and veggies + suppl for calcium). Cheese and butter are once again up to you, they're not as bad as bread and pasteurized milk would be for you, but I'd suggest limiting cheese and using olive oil instead of butter.PeterNorthisawesome said:Ok so I should eat meat, veg, fruit during every meal. How about bread, pasta, milk, cheese, butter, eggs? are those bad for you too? I think people should just avoid eating processed sugar and fat.
How are u suppose to get enough protein without milk, bread and pasta? Eating one chicken is only 30 grams of protein. So is peanut butter bad for you too? how about organic milk, cheese and butter are those good?NewDude001 said:Err, well, pasta and bread are both processed so they're out. Eggs are fine, I think men have been eating eggs for quite some time without any problems. Milk has been shown to be bad for you, it's really your decision though (personally I just eat meat for protein and veggies + suppl for calcium). Cheese and butter are once again up to you, they're not as bad as bread and pasteurized milk would be for you, but I'd suggest limiting cheese and using olive oil instead of butter.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.