"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Oxytocin

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Oxytocin



After reading that, i'm sure that most of you will have a totally different way of looking at "kino" ;)

Hope it helped.

Laterz...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Blew my mind about touching people. I'm gonna try rubbing my professor, maybe he'll give me a good mark :)
 

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Just so everyone knows... this is OXYTOCIN, not OXYCOTIN.

Do not give your dates hillbilly heroin.
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Just so everyone knows... this is OXYTOCIN, not OXYCOTIN.

Do not give your dates hillbilly heroin.
rofl
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Does knowing this biochemistry help extend what you learn from actually touching and noting the reaction?
 

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Alpine said:
Does knowing this biochemistry help extend what you learn from actually touching and noting the reaction?
I've known about it for approximately one year and I cannot say its knowledge has enhanced learning anything beyond emphasizing the power of kino, even in non-romantic contexts. It does, I think, put matters into a new perspective when you think about how touch affects you when someone touches you; it calms me down. I don't know what the article because it seems to have since gone down, but the peril of oxytocin is its effects wear off after about three or four years, if I remember correctly. Four years happens to be the magical number for most non-marital relationships to end and I don't think it's a coincidence.
 

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When the woman orgasms she released large amounts of oxytocin, which makes her attracted to her partner and feel "Love"

Men release oxytocin in much smaller quantities, therefore we kick her out of our beds and tell her to go home.
 

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i'm upset... I thought this thread was about drugs.. I'm out
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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this link isn't working for me, I get a 404 error. anybody else having this problem?
 

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Look at the date of the first post....
 
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