"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Overweight/Out of shape/fat women . The problems escelate Journal.

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Spent two days over the weekend with a very nice woman who happened to be over weight. I reside in Tampa which is a very active place. Also, i appreciate intelligence and good conversation so I decided to hang out with "julia " who I met at work. But I want to pass on a tip. Do not date someone who's out of shape.


1. Dudie,,,,she's gonna COST you a friggin fortoon. This girl ordered TEN dollars worth a shyte from mcdonalds !!!!!!!!!!

2. I wanted to walk over the beach but she only could go less than a mile.

3. I pictured having kids with her and that she would ballloon up to 500 pounds.

4. She's also lazy in other areas of life.

5. Theres no excitement .

6. If she is overweight the chances are high that she has no active plan to lose the weight.

Guys, definately date girl next door's 6-8 but do not date out of shape blimps.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Revolutionary, genius tip! I was about to elope with the 450 lb. love of my life, but this tip showed me the light. Thanks!

-Dan
 

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Depends dude, if she's a little bit overweight (ie. thick) then that's okay - just as long as she has goals in her life. If she was decent looking 6-7, nice boobs, nice butt, nice legs, etc.. and had a job/going to school. even though she weighs 15-30lbs more than average weight for her height. I'd hit that rather than some thin 6-7 girl who doesn't have a job/go to school. Another thing about thin girls.. I'm talking about model thin or skinny. They're NOT FUN.. physically/sexually and for some reason seem to be more insecure than average/thick women.

But yeah, I wouldn't hit a girl that is overweight 30-50lbs. Doesn't matter if she has a cute face or not, she ate herself to this way even though it's unhealthy.
 

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Yeah I know a girl who is 5'5 and is around 90lbs. Extremely skinny, but sexy as hell.

With that said, she keeps building up her rep for being great in bed, but I seriously doubt it... I am almost twice her size, and I am not even overweight. I would hurt that poor girl if/when I get the chance.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by NeverFear
Spent two days over the weekend with a very nice woman who happened to be over weight. I reside in Tampa which is a very active place. Also, i appreciate intelligence and good conversation so I decided to hang out with "julia " who I met at work. But I want to pass on a tip. Do not date someone who's out of shape.


1. Dudie,,,,she's gonna COST you a friggin fortoon. This girl ordered TEN dollars worth a shyte from mcdonalds !!!!!!!!!!

2. I wanted to walk over the beach but she only could go less than a mile.

3. I pictured having kids with her and that she would ballloon up to 500 pounds.

4. She's also lazy in other areas of life.

5. Theres no excitement .

6. If she is overweight the chances are high that she has no active plan to lose the weight.

Guys, definately date girl next door's 6-8 but do not date out of shape blimps.

You're absoulutely right about everything you said. Fat chicks are definetly no fun to be with especially if youre the type of guy that tries to keep yourself in shape. Being fat is just as much of an attitude as it is a state of being and typically most fat chicks let their "fat" attitude spill over into other areas of thier lives and the even sadder part is that they dont care.
 

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Yes Fat chicks are bad news. There are those who know their fat and are just plain lazy. There is also a good amount of fat chicks who are delusional this delusions creep into all parts of their life.

People are congruent throughout throughout for the most part.

I once met up with this chick who wanted to be a singer. Yet when i heard her sing she sounded like ****. Then once I saw her in summer clothes noticed she was fat 5'4 155. She was wearing a belly shirt showin off her fat. Then once half naked showed me her ass and said "Do you think my ass looks fat?" I laughed

Then a little later we were talkin about fitness. I am an in shape buffed guy. I was looking in the mirror and she was looking in the mirror trying to flex boasting about how good shape she was in. I thought she had to be joking but NO she wasn't. She looked like one of those Trim spa before pictures.

Case and point, if you aren't real with yourself, you're probably going to be a fatass and not notice it and be a load of trouble in the longrun
 

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What the **** is this garbage??
 

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...

Obviously this isn't a tip.

Close and chuck?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm aware that women have a great ability to lie to themselves, but I've never fully understood how an overweight woman can think she is 'in shape'. I've tried using logic and some degree of emotional thinking to no avail.

Not all fat women are hopeless cases, but if you meet one who doesn't take the time or effort to better herself, she's not going to be doing any self-improvement for the rest of her life. It's the same in other areas too -- people in general who are lazy and unmotivated find it hard to suddenly switch into another mindset. Run away. Run far away.
 
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