"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Overweight and obesity statistics

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All (Men and Women), Men, Women
Overweight or Obesity 70.2, 73.7, 66.9
Overweight 32.5, 38.7, 26.5
Obesity (including extreme obesity) 37.7, 35, 40.4
Extreme obesity 7.7, 5.5, 9.9

What do you think of this? These are obesity and overweight statistics as of 2014.

I'm normal weight. I should be cleaning up, right? Almost 3/4 guys are overweight or obese.

https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-statistics/overweight-obesity
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sounds about right, most likely worse as of 2017 because of all the processed crap being sold. I'm currently considered obese, but holding some muscle and taking action to lower BF. No matter what people say, it still affects my game and confidence to approach woman.
 
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Sounds about right, most likely worse as of 2017 because of all the processed crap being sold. I'm currently considered obese, but holding some muscle and taking action to lower BF. No matter what people say, it still affects my game and confidence to approach woman.
I could gain 20 pounds and still not be overweight, let alone obese.
 

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Richard, I find you an annoying throll who is wasting time.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheGambino

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So stop replying to my threads. I've never responded to any of yours.
What does that has to do with it? Your on this golden forum which I am part of. Your writing so much crap, overwriting the real and usefull threads. Leave and join a gaming forum or some cheit to fill it with nonsense.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The difference between being a "creep" or "cute" is how much she likes you. The gym, ambition, status, having the frame of the relationship and taking no BS also help.
 

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With attracting women I think it works on a sliding scale. Where the less attractive you are in the looks and muscle department the more you have to counter balance that with game in order to "get your foot in the door".
 
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