I was
I was wrong
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Overshared. Pretty Sure I Messed This Up.
- Thread starter jebrooks1988
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
yungballa
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Like marmel said, I can see you getting tired of him real fast in the next few weeks.
Stop the bull sh1t. If you like him, show
It. Flirt with him more. Show some more interest. Fvck the games. and the pvssy footing around.
Both male and female should be straigjt forward. Make your interest known. What the hell is the point of games.
Show him that you like him. If you get tired of how he acts, or you feel for a good, legit reason that he doesn't like you, kick him to the curb.
Stop the bull sh1t. If you like him, show
It. Flirt with him more. Show some more interest. Fvck the games. and the pvssy footing around.
Both male and female should be straigjt forward. Make your interest known. What the hell is the point of games.
Show him that you like him. If you get tired of how he acts, or you feel for a good, legit reason that he doesn't like you, kick him to the curb.
Just get over this pathetic chump... You are having oneitis. Worse, you are having oneitis over a man who seems inconsistent, who has some pathetic beta tendencies, and who you seem to not actually have much in common with. You are doing all this, reading into everything he is doing, coming on this board to ask all these questions about him. But honestly, I do not think it is even worth your time.
Why even care about this guy? Why is he even worth it to you?
Edit: OP already said "pvssy is power". I suggest the op read up on a bit of game here... Most of the women I meet have no game whatsoever, they are so use to the man doing all the work. Thus, most women settle for what comes to them instead of going after what they want. I think that if a woman knew half as much about it as most of the Don Juans here did than she would be able to honestly get whatever man she wanted.
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Speculator E
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You have intimacy issues because you're afraid of getting hurt. You play games because you're afraid of getting hurt. Us guys already know.
dustmuffin
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let us know how it turns out.....Still think you need to ask him out.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.