"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Overshared. Pretty Sure I Messed This Up.

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I was
Well I told him good luck because he started a new job yesterday and he called me sweetheart with the kissing emoji. Said welcome then he went on to double text when I hadn't responded in an hr but then I fell asleep and woke up to another text so I think he's still interested and he was doing what Von said.
I was wrong
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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yungballa

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Like marmel said, I can see you getting tired of him real fast in the next few weeks.

Stop the bull sh1t. If you like him, show
It. Flirt with him more. Show some more interest. Fvck the games. and the pvssy footing around.

Both male and female should be straigjt forward. Make your interest known. What the hell is the point of games.

Show him that you like him. If you get tired of how he acts, or you feel for a good, legit reason that he doesn't like you, kick him to the curb.
 

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Well I told him good luck because he started a new job yesterday and he called me sweetheart with the kissing emoji. Said welcome then he went on to double text when I hadn't responded in an hr but then I fell asleep and woke up to another text so I think he's still interested and he was doing what Von said.
Just get over this pathetic chump... You are having oneitis. Worse, you are having oneitis over a man who seems inconsistent, who has some pathetic beta tendencies, and who you seem to not actually have much in common with. You are doing all this, reading into everything he is doing, coming on this board to ask all these questions about him. But honestly, I do not think it is even worth your time.
Why even care about this guy? Why is he even worth it to you?

Edit: OP already said "pvssy is power". I suggest the op read up on a bit of game here... Most of the women I meet have no game whatsoever, they are so use to the man doing all the work. Thus, most women settle for what comes to them instead of going after what they want. I think that if a woman knew half as much about it as most of the Don Juans here did than she would be able to honestly get whatever man she wanted.
 
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You have intimacy issues because you're afraid of getting hurt. You play games because you're afraid of getting hurt. Us guys already know.
 

dustmuffin

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Well I told him good luck because he started a new job yesterday and he called me sweetheart with the kissing emoji. Said welcome then he went on to double text when I hadn't responded in an hr but then I fell asleep and woke up to another text so I think he's still interested and he was doing what Von said.
let us know how it turns out.....Still think you need to ask him out.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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