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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

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The words come later. The impression comes first.

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overprotective dad...? too close?

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ok i been with my girl for almost 7 months and a half...everything is good...the only thing im wondering is, on sunday i met her dad for the first time, i met up with her and her dad at the movies...shes told me he's overprotective, but they're really close...her dad and mom are separated, but she has a close relationship with both parents, and she lives with her dad now...

my question is, do yall think its weird when a girl holds hands with her dad? she was sitting in the middle, her dad was on one side and i was on the other...out of the corner of my eye i can see, they held hands, and then she looked at me, and then she grabbed my hand so she was holding hands with both of us...

this girl is 15, if that matters, and i thought it was kinda weird, but then other people told me thats normal, depending on the type of relationship they have...she told me theyre REALLY close, he buys her everything she wants (which she doesnt like because she feels shes taking advantage), and shes told me HIS girlfriend doesnt like her, im assuming for that reason...

anything to worry about?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

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i dont think that's wierd at all, I have a good relationship with my dad, and I think it's cool she's not afraid to show that she loves her dad in public, but that's just me... I don't mind holding my dad's hand in public...
 

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Personally its cool if they girls have a good relationship with their dad, but come on ... Do you want to see your BF ****blocked by your dad? The guy will feel akward around you two ... Especially the holding both hands at the same time thing.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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