"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Overcoming Shyness and gaining confidence talking to girls

WrEcKLeSS2000

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Hey everyone I've been away for a while working on myself, Been hitting up the gym, focusing on school stuff like that....But something I recently did has already helped me overcome my shyness and has helped me talked to girls easier. I started working at a good clothing store where alot of hot girls work at and shop at and everyday I'm constantly around them, and I talk to them every chance I get. It's great because I could never do that before I started working...Since I just started working I'm still in the process of working on my social skills but I'm moving along well. I'm doing a good job talking to all the girls who work there. I'm also not even thinking about getting a girlfriend right now. I'm focused on school and work but I know that a girlfriend will come along eventually..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Juan and only

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good job man:up: keep it up!

And yes, the best way to get comfortable with girls is definately to get up off your lazy ass, and just go talk to them.
 

El MonoLoco

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Way 2 Go!!!!


I know its been said here before and I know through my own personal experience....

Getting a job where you work in and amongst the public is a sure fire way to gain confidence and communication skills....

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