"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Overcoming Shyness and gaining confidence talking to girls

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WrEcKLeSS2000

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Hey everyone I've been away for a while working on myself, Been hitting up the gym, focusing on school stuff like that....But something I recently did has already helped me overcome my shyness and has helped me talked to girls easier. I started working at a good clothing store where alot of hot girls work at and shop at and everyday I'm constantly around them, and I talk to them every chance I get. It's great because I could never do that before I started working...Since I just started working I'm still in the process of working on my social skills but I'm moving along well. I'm doing a good job talking to all the girls who work there. I'm also not even thinking about getting a girlfriend right now. I'm focused on school and work but I know that a girlfriend will come along eventually..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Juan and only

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good job man:up: keep it up!

And yes, the best way to get comfortable with girls is definately to get up off your lazy ass, and just go talk to them.
 
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Way 2 Go!!!!


I know its been said here before and I know through my own personal experience....

Getting a job where you work in and amongst the public is a sure fire way to gain confidence and communication skills....

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