ok, so I've been hanging out with this girl a lil bit for the last couple weeks. Really cute, hb9.5. I wrote about a coffee date we had a couple weeks back. We hung out July 4th and I showed her a good time and got in some ****y and funny and threw a few jabs at her plus a bit of kino that I couldn't do on our coffee date. Anyhow, I want to ask her out on a more formal date. Herein lies the problem: word has caught my ear that she may be kinda seeing someone else. I still plan to ask her out cause I'll regret it if I don't. If she says yes fine, but what should I say to overcome her objections if she says something like "I'm kinda already dating someone" or something similar. Also, and I know I'm thinking about this too much, but she just got out of a long term relationship, so what could I say to overcome her objections if she says "I don't want to date right now, I just got out of something long term". Anyway, I just want some pointers on those two things. Cause other than those two things, I know she would say yes, and I believe she'll say yes regardless, but any help will be good.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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