ok, so I've been hanging out with this girl a lil bit for the last couple weeks. Really cute, hb9.5. I wrote about a coffee date we had a couple weeks back. We hung out July 4th and I showed her a good time and got in some ****y and funny and threw a few jabs at her plus a bit of kino that I couldn't do on our coffee date. Anyhow, I want to ask her out on a more formal date. Herein lies the problem: word has caught my ear that she may be kinda seeing someone else. I still plan to ask her out cause I'll regret it if I don't. If she says yes fine, but what should I say to overcome her objections if she says something like "I'm kinda already dating someone" or something similar. Also, and I know I'm thinking about this too much, but she just got out of a long term relationship, so what could I say to overcome her objections if she says "I don't want to date right now, I just got out of something long term". Anyway, I just want some pointers on those two things. Cause other than those two things, I know she would say yes, and I believe she'll say yes regardless, but any help will be good.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
overcoming objections
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